August 13–16, 2026 | Nanga Bush Camp, Dwellingup WA | 3 Days Off-Grid

If your son mirrors you, your daughter brings home a man like you and your partner tolerates you —are you proud or doubtful?

That's the question.

This is where you answer it.

No phones. No performance. No spectators.

Most men aren't broken.

They're managed. Managing their temper. Managing the distance in their relationship. Managing the version of themselves they let people see

This is not an echo chamber weekend.

This is a disruption of everything you've learned to manage.

Intention behind the words:

The Disruption of Man returns to the root.

Disruption from Latin dis- “apart” + rumpere “to break, burst.” Past participle disruptus “broken apart,” yielding Late Latin disruptio “a breaking asunder.” In English, disruption keeps that force: a decisive break that clears the way for new order.

It’s disrupting:

  • The belief of not being worthy and lowering boundaries to be accepted.

  • The pattern of suppression to keep their peace first and not yours.

  • Men who are done accepting the lack of intimacy in their relationship.

  • The cycle of knowing better but not doing better.

  • The version of strength that avoids discomfort and confrontation, instead of meeting it.

Man in nature representing off-grid immersion and reclaiming personal authority

This is for the man who is done pretending everything is fine.

Father and teenage son in golden hour light representing real connection and family responsibility
  • The man who shares a house but not a bed with his partner — and doesn't know how to close that gap.

  • The father who provides everything and is present for nothing.

  • The man who keeps the peace by swallowing what he actually thinks.

  • The man whose anger comes out sideways — at traffic, at small things — and he knows it's not really about that.

  • The man who has built everything he was supposed to want and still feels hollow inside it.

  • The man who stays up late every night because lying in the dark means facing what he's been avoiding.

  • The man who wants his son to see something worth mirroring.

If any of that is you — you're exactly who this is for.

This is NOT for men looking for an escape or a feel-good weekend.

Are you the man your son calls when he's lost, or the man your daughter calls when she's scared?

They're not waiting for a perfect man. They're waiting for a present one.

The Venue & Setting

About the Retreat

The Setting: Nanga Bush Camp

Located in the heart of the Dwellingup forest, our base at Currawong Lodge offers a rugged, secluded sanctuary for our work. Surrounded by towering trees and the raw beauty of the Western Australian bush, this environment is designed to strip away the noise of modern life and return you to the essentials.

Schedule: The Path of Disruption

  • Thursday, 13 Aug: Arrival & Opening - Threshold Crossing (Check-in 2pm-5pm)

  • Friday, 14 Aug: Disrupt & Confront - Breaking the Shell

  • Saturday, 15 Aug: Initiation & Activation - The Forge

  • Sunday, 16 Aug: Integration & Departure - The Return (Check-out 1pm)

Safety, Suitability & Boundaries

Our Commitment to Space:

This work is intense and requires a high level of personal responsibility. All sessions are conducted within a framework of clear physical and emotional boundaries.

Health Disclosure:

Due to the physical and emotional nature of breathwork and confrontation work, a health disclosure form is required upon booking. This experience is suited for those in good physical and mental health ready for deep exploration.

What You'll Experience

Man standing at a crossroads moment during initiation ceremony at The Disruption of Man retreat

Initiations

Clear challenges that mark what you are done tolerating and what you now stand for.

Man practicing breathwork meditation for nervous system regulation at off-grid men's retreat

Breathwork

Practical breath tools to regulate your nervous system under pressure and stress.

wo men in authentic dialogue and confrontation drill during men's transformation event

embodiment

Speak directly. Face off. Stay present when challenged by any situations.

Group of men gathered around fire showing brotherhood and authentic connection

Brotherhood

Being seen without being rescued. Holding others without fixing them.

Man sitting alone on rocky outcrop at sunset for reflection and integration

Time on Country

Silence, reflection, and integration away from distractions.

Man sitting alone on rocky outcrop at sunset for reflection and integration

AND MORE…

Many doors to drop the armour, feed the flame, and call the man forward.

The Work
(In the Room)

DAWN

Breath, presence, intention.

RITES CHECKPOINT

Initiations held with structure, consent, and accountability.

DAY

Briefings, drills, council, and guided challenges.

NIGHT FIRE

Integration, commitment, and closure.

THE WORK IS DIRECT AND DEMANDING.

Consent and safety are non-negotiable.

Consent and safety are non-negotiable. You choose your pace and stay engaged.

You choose your pace and stay engaged.

Your disruptors

Jaime Duff, guide and facilitator at The Disruption of Man men's transformation retreat

laki MAFI

Disruptor 1

I carry Tongan lineage and a warrior's stubbornness. I spent years being the man who looked like he had it together and felt nothing of the sort on the inside. That gap between the performance and the reality is exactly what this work disrupts. I'm trained in NLP, hypnotherapy, and breathwork. But

what I bring into the room is not a methodology.

It's the willingness to sit in truth with another man and not flinch. I built this retreat because the work changed my life. And because men like us deserve a place where we don't have to perform.

Laki Mafi, guide and facilitator at The Disruption of Man men's transformation retreat

JAIME DUFF

Disruptor 2

I've spent years in men's work — trained as an Equilibrator, shamanic healing facilitator,

and breakthrough coach. What that means in practice is that I know how to hold a man

when he's falling apart and how to push a

man who thinks he's fine. I bring men out of their heads and back into their bodies. Not through theory. Through pressure, presence, and the kind of honesty most men have never had from another man.

I'm here because men who do this work become better fathers, better partners, and better men. That matters to me more than anything else.

The Investment

Consider what staying the same costs you. Another year of managed distance in your relationship. Another year of your kids getting the leftover version of you. Another year of knowing something needs to change and choosing not to act on it. Whatever that costs — it costs more than this.

Early Bird

aUd$1,100

  • Available until April 30, 2026

  • Flexible payment plans available.

No contracts - cancel anytime

Select the deposit option at checkout to begin your plan.

What's Included:

  • 3 nights accommodation at Nanga Bush Camp (Currawong Lodge)

  • All chef-prepared meals, snacks, and refreshments

  • Complete facilitation — breathwork, embodiment practices, and initiation rituals

  • Post-retreat integration support

Understand What's

Really Driving You

Understand What's Really Driving You

Most men don't realize that anger, avoidance, and disconnection in relationships aren't character flaws, they're patterns with roots. This quick assessment reveals which one is shaping how you show up.

3 Questions to See What's Really Driving You Emotionally

This quick check-in will help you see whether anger, avoidance, or disconnection is shaping the way you show up in relationships. Takes about 2 minutes.

Clarity

Understand your core pattern

Insight

See what's driving your behavior

Direction

Get personalized next steps

YOU LEAVE STEADIER THAN YOU ARRIVED.

You leave steadier than you arrived. Clear on what you're available for and what you're not. With something decided — not just felt.

FAQS

WHEN AND WHERE?

Dates: 13–16 August, 2026

Location: Nanga Bush Camp, Dwellingup WA

HOW LONG?

Three full days. No drop-ins.

DO I NEED EXPERIENCE?

No. You need willingness to be challenged and to stay present.

IS IT SAFE?

Yes. The work is intense and held with clear boundaries and consent.

WHAT TO BRING?

Bring a sleeping bag, pillow, and warm, relaxed clothing suitable for the bush.

FOOD AND ACCOMMODATION?

3 nights’ accommodation at Nanga Bush Camp (Currawong Lodge).

Full catering: All chef-prepared meals, snacks, and refreshments.

Can I pay in installments?

Yes, we offer payment plans to ensure this work is accessible. Select the deposit option to start your plan.

Not ready yet?

Join the list.

Early access and first-release pricing go to this list only.

No spam. Unsubscribe anytime.

You've been asking yourself

the question for a while now.

August 2026. Three days in the Western Australian bush.

A small group of men doing the work that most men spend their entire lives avoiding.

Limited places. When they're gone they're gone.

Join the Waitlist

Be first through the door. Early access and first release pricing go to this list only.

Location

Western Australia

Follow

Location

Western Australia

Follow

© 2026 The Disruption of Man. All rights reserved.